Paul's Letter To The Ephesians

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THE WALK OF THE CHRISTIAN BELIEVER

E. THE BELIEVER IS TO WALK FOLLOWING GOD

-- { Ephesians 5:1-7 }  3 But fornication and impurity of any kind, or greed, must not even be mentioned among you, as is proper among saints. 4 Entirely out of place is obscene, silly, and vulgar talk; but instead, let there be thanksgiving. 5 Be sure of this, that no fornicator or impure person, or one who is greedy (that is, an idolater), has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes on those who are disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be associated with them. -- NRSV

Breath Prayer For The Week (A "breath prayer" is a brief sentence or simple phrase that can be repeated often to Jesus in one breath.)

Jesus, separate my sin from me.

Dear Friend, grace and peace be unto you from God our Father, and our Lord and Savior, Jesus, the Christ.  Amen.

St. Paul gives us the greatest challenge of all, in this section of Scripture – to follow the Person of God.  You are to walk through life with God.

First, by becoming a follower of God (5:1)  “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children…”

St. Paul puts forth a bold concept.  The believer is to become a follower of God – an imitator of God.  The idea is that of commitment, attachment, devotion, and allegiance.  

Just as when you were a child you imitated your parents, so now you are to imitate God.  You are to become like God.  Jesus said, “Be therefore perfect, as your Father in heaven is perfect.” (Matthew 5:48)

Second, follow God by loving as Jesus loved (5:2)  “…and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.”

Paul emphasized the love of God, which is always an active love.  That love was shown to us in Jesus’ death on the cross.  Jesus was sacrificed in your place on the cross.  Your sins were placed upon Him.  He died in your place.

Do you have that kind of sacrificial love for others?  Are you active in that kind of love?  The point is that the believer in Jesus is to love just as He loved – to give just as He gave.  It is your love of others that is an offering well pleasing to God.  It is a fragrance pure and fresh.

Third, follow God by being morally pure (5:3)  “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.”

There is no wavering here.  If you are to follow God you must be morally pure.  There is not to be the slightest suspicion of immorality among us.  This is a big order in our society of today.  

Immorality, impurity, and greed are not proper characteristics of the person seeking to follow God.

Fourth, follow God by being clean-mouthed (5:4)  “Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.”

I’m trying to remember if I ever had to suck on a bar of soap when I was a kid.  Maybe you had the experience.  Your parents were trying to wash out some bad language.  We could stick a bar of soap in the mouth of the media today and do a lot of good.

All of us loose it once in a while.  We say something foul or maybe obscene and we are sorry.  But if such becomes the habit of our life we greatly displease God.  

I knew a man once who had a very foul mouth.  He was known for speaking with obscenities about every other word.  As his pastor I never observed it, however.  Whenever I was around, for some reason, he spoke quite well.  He could clean up his language when he wanted too.

  1. You are never, not once, to be engaged in obscene talk or be around it.

  2. You are never once to engage in foolish talking that is empty, unthoughtful, senseless, wasted, purposeless.  Talk without a good purpose is a waste of time says Paul.

  3. You are never once to engage in coarse joking – poking fun, suggestive conversation, wisecracks.  This type of behavior, to attract attention is not a characteristic of the Christian.

You are not to speak with such an uncontrolled mouth.  You are to engage in conversations that build people up and offer thanks and praise to God.

Fifth, follow God by knowing God’s solemn warning (5:5-6)  “For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person – such a man is an idolater – has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.  Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient.”

St. Paul warns us all in making three points.

  1. Immorality has no part with God.  A person practicing immorality will not enter the kingdom of God.  The doom pronounced is not future, it is present.  Paul says, “has any” which refers to the present.  The believer, by his behavior has cut himself off from God.  You may have land, houses, possessions but if you are living immorally you don’t have the kingdom of God in your present.  

  2. There are deceivers walking all about us.  There are people who will tell you…

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that sex is the normal and natural thing – that a one time affair will not hurt – that it is acceptable and will do you no harm.

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that securing possessions is normal behavior and banking and storing up excessively is ok.  It simply builds position, ego, and self-image, and what could be wrong with that?

These are deceivers who do not know the mind of God.  Don’t listen to them.

  1. There were and still are two main deceptions about Christianity.

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There are those who feel that they can say and do anything and still be acceptable to God.  This argument comes primarily from outside the
Church but some inside still promoted it.  St. Paul says, “NO!”  

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There are those primarily within the Church who feel that sin is
irrelevant.  This is an argument that is surfacing anew in our day on many subjects.
They say that it doesn’t matter how much a person sins because God’s love covers
and forgives it all.  Therefore, sin so that God’s mercy can abound.  St. Paul says, “NEVER!”  

Paul says, “…because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient.”  Interpret that however you wish but it is not a good thing.  Sin is everything contrary to God, therefore He hates sin.  He hates to see us sin because He knows that that nature is destructive.  Sin in itself is self-punishing.  But God also deals with the ungodly harshly.  He exercises deliberate anger that arises out of His very righteousness.  His anger is right, just and good.  

Sixth, follow God by separating oneself from the unclean (5:7)  “Therefore do not be partners with them.”

Paul is saying to us, do not take part in the sins I have described to you in these verses.  You are to be holy, set apart, living for God.  You are a new creation in Jesus.  Live like it!

By the grace of God you have the power of the Holy Spirit within you to live a life pleasing to God as described by St. Paul.  And when you stumble, you have God’s merciful and forgiving hand to lift you up and start you over again.

Heavenly Father, we are tempted too much sin and fall into its traps.  Release us by Your Spirit.

In Jesus name, Amen.

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